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人生有这3张牌，你会走得更远
去年旅游时，加了一个导游的微信。
在今年2月份疫情紧的时候，该导游售卖酒精、一次性手套、消毒湿巾，
刷爆了我的朋友圈。
刚开始以为她转行了，直到近期，她的朋友圈更新了某某景区恢复开放、
某某景区向您发起春天的邀约……
一问才知，因疫情对旅游业冲击太大，没有一单收入，而房贷、信用卡 要还，逼迫她必须从其他途径养活自己。
同时，她也感慨自己：“要不是平日花钱太大手大脚，遇到突发情况，
也不用这么紧张。以后，我一定要规划好自己，提升自己，同时更加努力挣钱，
以防万一。”
是的，规划提升，努力挣钱，走上人生的新台阶，走的更远，
是我们日常的必修课，更是我们应对突发状况的底牌。
这些日子，疫情得到了有力控制，大街上逐渐恢复往日的热闹，
看到暂停键重新被启动，不禁让人感叹“天下熙熙、天下攘攘”是 一种正常的、美好的社会生态。
打好人生这3张底牌，才能不辜负这美好社会赋予的机遇，才 能走得更远。
人生有这3张牌，你会走得更远
知乎上有一个问题：“格局是什么？”
有个高赞回答是这样的：“格局就是你的高度与宽度，你能容忍一些普通人容忍 不了的事情。”
格局就是大视野。
曾经看到一张图片，是关于读书少和读书多的区别，用在格局同样适用，描述的 是，读书少的人看到的，是世界的黑暗面和消沉面，多是消极认知；而读书多的看到 的，是太阳的光明和憧憬，展现的是广阔前景。
格局亦然。
大格局下的心态能过滤琐碎的事，不被琐事牵绊，在走向远方的路上轻松上阵。
拥有大格局的人，往往更有毅力实现自己的大梦想。
人生有这3张牌，你会走得更远
格局牌
著名作家、画家刘墉“不负我心、不负我生”的处世原则，淋漓尽致体 现大格局下的成就。
作为曾经的台湾知名主持人，放弃一切，到美国重新开辟事业。
他曾在一篇文章中提到：“我在弗吉尼亚理工学院演讲，在台湾场场爆 满的我，那天居然只有十几位听众。”
反转人生体验，或许没有经历的人无法体会。
但有大视野观的他，不囿于眼前的困境，忘记以前的辉煌，执写作、绘 画两只笔，终成为一代人的偶像。
他在中国偏远地区捐建了40多所希望小学，并持续资助贫寒学生。
大格局的人，有不受限制的执着；这份大视野的执着，引导人走向远方 的辉煌。
人生有这3张牌，你会走得更远
张伟丽这个名字，在3月8日被全国人所认识，所钦佩：她战胜了曾经的
UFC女子草量级王者乔安娜·耶德尔泽西克，实现职业生涯的21连胜。
她拼搏的过往也渐渐呈现在大家面前：6岁就被父母送去学武术；后因伤 从江苏省退役来到北京，在一家健身房上班。
为了不能忘却的梦想，在健身房下班后，她一直坚持训练。
有一个快手视频，是她在三个男子中间，踢腿打，其中一个男子在有小 木棍修正她的动作，她被汗水浸湿的头发和训练服，让人心疼……
终于知道这个“全世界最能打的女子”经历了怎样的磨练，才能收获丰 收喜悦。
人生有这3张牌，你会走得更远
拼搏牌
这在疫情期间激励了很多人。正如张伟丽说的那样：“因为我也是战胜了很多挫折和 困难，如果我可以拿下比赛，我相信我可以激励很多人。”
一句歌词唱的很好：“没有人能够随随便便成功，努力才能让你变得成功在胸”。
在我家附近的农贸市场上，有好几份卖煎饼卷串的，但有一家夫妇做的特别吸引人，
总有人排队去买。
煎饼卷串能挣多少钱？我一直好奇。最后从他们靠这份生意买了房子，子承父业也干 起来这份生意里得到了答案。
可我们不知道的是：他们夫妇俩每天晚上一直卖到晚上11点，直到最后一波下夜班的 人经过……
努力拼搏是我们走上人生阶梯的叩门砖，成功的人没有一个不是拼搏的。
或许当前你的拼搏未见成效，但最终，你会发现你比别人多努力拼搏一分，在将来，
你会得到十分。
人生有这3张牌，你会走得更远
在各类颁奖晚会上，获奖人在发获奖感言时，经常会感谢一连串的名单。
这不仅仅是谦虚的套话。
因为一个成功的人，背后会有一群人默默支持。懂得感恩在背后为你付出的人，
成就好人缘，才会走得更远。
人缘不是去刻意讨好每个人或某个人，而是在你拼搏奋斗的时候，有这么一群 人或一个人支持你，是真诚相待的朋友，不是利害相关的轻薄之人。
季羡林季老，年轻时到德国哥廷根求学，遇到了知己章用（当时的教育总长章 士钊的儿子）。
初到一个地方，季羡林对一切都是生疏的，甚至对专业学习的选择都是不确定 的。作为当时教育总长儿子的章用，没有官家子弟的纨绔习气，和季羡林一见如故。
他在生活上竭尽全力帮助季羡林。
人生有这3张牌，你会走得更远
人缘牌
季羡林的学生蔡德贵，曾在一篇文章中写到：“陪季羡林奔波全城的是 他，到哥廷根大学教务处的是他，到研究所的是他，到市政府的是他，到医 生家去的是他，就连帮助办理入学手续、注册选课的，也都是他。”
就连季羡林选学梵文，也是章用的大力支持才确定。对季先生后来的梵 学研究有初始的影响。
我们的人生历程，总有那么几个人对我们推心置腹，对我们帮助巨大。
这时，我们是幸运的。
但这种幸运是有原因的。好人缘的相处，都是相互的，试想，没有季先 生的坦诚、朴厚等美德素养，怎会吸引他人的帮助呢？
人生有这3张牌，你会走得更远
人生有这3张牌，你会走得更远
人缘，是人与人之间的缘分，这缘分起源彼此的信任和坦诚。
曽国藩曾说：“谋大事者重格局。”
格局的大视野是一个人走得更远的前提条件。
胸中有高山之人，才能站在高山之颠。
在大格局下，实现目标还需要拼搏努力。
一份耕耘一份收获。有付出才有收获。
丰收的果实挂在树梢，还需要你努力的采摘，更何况远方的梦想！
人生有这3张牌，你会走得更远
在格局和拼搏努力下，“人和”也很重要。
俗话说的好：“一个好汉三个帮。”
除了帮助，你的人缘群体也决定了你的归属和走的远近。
有句话近期在网络很流行这样一句话：“一个人走得很快，一 群人走得更远。”
深以为然。
重格局，多拼搏，懂人缘，我们的人生才会掌握在自己手中，
在繁华烂漫的春天开出属于自己的那份绚丽。
与君共勉。
文 / 语宣
I was lifting with the owner of my gym. She was doing clean and jerks. I was squatting.
In between sets, I asked if she had ever competed in an Olympic weightlifting meet.
“You should do one. They are a lot of fun and you’re definitely built to be a weightlifter.”
“That’s what everyone tells me, but I don’t know,” she responded. “Competitions make me kind of nervous. I just think: what if I miss this lift and all of these people see it?”
Let's pause for a moment.
Remember, this is someone who OWNS a gym. She misses lifts every single week and sees hundreds of other people do the same. And yet here she is, letting her fear of being judged prevent her from doing something that she'd like to do.
This little conversation reminded me of why I hate “fear-based decision making” and got me thinking about the importance of overcoming fear. Let’s talk about how you can get past fear and self-doubt and do the things that you want to do.
Fear-based decision making is when you let your fears or worries dictate your actions (or, in most cases, your lack of action).
For example…
“I’d love to visit Africa, but what if something bad happens while I’m there? I'll go somewhere else instead.”
“I’d love to write a book, but what if people hate it? Maybe I should read more before I start writing.”
“I’d love to get in shape, but what if I look stupid at the gym? I need to lose some weight before I go.”
The unfortunate result is that you don't do the things that you say are important to you.
Just to be clear, I've made this mistake many times myself. In fact, for two years I came up with all sorts of reasons for why I shouldn't start this very website. I've also come up with excuses for not building businesses, not starting projects, not applying to schools, not applying to jobs, and on and on.
In other words, this is a mistake that we all make. But, that doesn't mean it's alright to continue making it.
After all of my mistakes, there are a few rules of thumb for overcoming fear…
1. Don’t pick goals where the stakes are low.
When the gym owner chooses to avoid competition and only miss lifts in her home gym, it's a way of keeping the stakes low. But failing in a safe zone is just a clever way of holding yourself back.
If you fail inside your comfort zone, it's not really failure, it's just maintaining the status quo. If you never feel uncomfortable, then you're never trying anything new.
In other words, feeling stupid is a good thing.
2. Nobody is rooting for you to fail.
Maybe you'll succeed. Maybe you'll fail. For the most part, nobody cares one way or the other.
This is a good thing! The world is big and you are small, and that
means you can chase your dreams with little worry for what people
think.
3. Just because you don’t like where you have to start from doesn’t mean you shouldn’t get started.
I wish I was a better writer when I started writing. I wish I was a smarter entrepreneur when I started building businesses. I wish I was a better photographer when I picked up a
camera. But more than anything, I'm glad I chose to start even though I wasn't very good in the beginning.
Feelings of fear and uncertainty have a way of making you feel unprepared.
“I should learn more before I take this test.”
“I should practice more before I compete.”
“I should get this degree before I start this business.”
Here's a tough question that forces you to consider the opposite side: How long will you put off what you’re capable of doing just to maintain what you’re currently doing?
4. Stop making uncertain things, certain.
Who says you’re going to fail? Just because someone else got
rejected from that job doesn't mean you will. Maybe the publisher hated your friend's book, but that doesn't mean they'll hate yours. Maybe you tried to lose weight before, but that doesn't mean you can't lose it now.
You’re not destined to “miss that lift.” In fact, maybe you're destined to succeed.
Stop acting like failure is certain. It’s not.
5. The only real failure is not taking any action in the first place.
We all deal with feelings of fear, uncertainty, and vulnerability. And
unfortunately, most of us let those feelings dictate our actions. For this
reason, the simple decision to act is often enough to separate you from
most people. You don’t need to be great at what you do, you just need to
be the one person who actually decides to do it.
You can enjoy a lot of success by doing the things that most people
make excuses to avoid.
好文陆续上传，
希望学生在行动管制令期间也不要松懈，
不要停止阅读。
Good articles are uploaded one after another,
I hope that students will not relax during the action control order, Don't stop reading.
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